“ High performance and extraordinary leadership that doesn’t compromise your wellbeing starts with attention, awareness and deep listening skills”

— Dr. Bena

Upgrade the Relationship with Yourself through your nervous system. Shift your nervous system and Shift your state of mind.

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Lifestyle & Mindful Leadership Coaching

Get Inspired, Renewed and Chill.

You care about your team and you are so busy, you can’t imagine this is the only way to lead and live. YOU WANT MORE and for good reason. Problems at work find their way into your off-hours... problems at home show up at work. Yet it feels like you are separated into parts and pieces and always under pressure. .

You are a high performer and doing what is right for your team. You stand up for individual dignity. Your team are high achieving and stressed to the max and many don’t even have kids yet. Everyone is doing their best just to make it through the day. This can’t be all there is to life.

There is more and and it is a lot closer then you think.

“Dr. Bena’s style and insights consistently produce an immediate positive result.” Jennifer P.

“This is my 3rd round of lifestyle and leadership coaching with Dr. Bena Long. I was a football player and as an athlete, I’m familiar with how effective coaching can be as a means to improving performance. I chose to work with Dr. Bena because I recognize the benefits of building a valuable support team for living my best life, both professionally and personally. 

The first round of coaching was all about my willingness to make a career pivot and I'm happy to say that I’ve landed my dream position. Dr. Bena helped me to step beyond my comfort zone to make a persuasive case for my advancement as a faculty member at an elite university.

During my second round of coaching, Dr. Bena helped me to get clear on how my lifestyle was impacting my level of performance in all aspects of my life. I was running at a very fast pace, stressed with work, and not making conscious choices when it came to my diet. With her guidance and coaching mastery, I’ve been able to make small changes that weren’t apparent to my resistant mind. As a result, I’ve developed much better habits and feel quite a bit more energy and vitality.

For my last round of coaching, I explored a painful relationship that I have with a family member.  With Dr. Bena’s gentle guidance, I have a new clarity with an entirely new perspective that I didn’t think was possible. She is an amazing coach with the ability to work at so many levels, all with a smile and a laugh. If you’re looking to make some positive and lasting changes in your life and career, I highly recommend working with Dr. Bena Long.”

Sincerely,

Michael Foley, Founder and CEO

Clarity Central, Inc.


 

I want more from life!

 

Performance Edge

When you are keen on excellence and doing your best.

I work with your strengths and guide you to upgrading you.  What is your performance edge? What are you hoping to improve now? This can be about work, relationships, personal life, leading your team and/or the most important aspects of life and living well with a deep sense of love and contentment. What would that type of excellence look like in your life?

Integrated Life

You have been reading and following podcasts in mindfulness and meditation for years. Have experimented with practices and even experienced some different states of consciousness. Now you are ready to put it all together. Systematic, purposeful directed integration into your life and life’s work.

 

You want performance edge

You are searching and have thought of trying yoga, prayer or even meditation, living on purpose but it all seems to hokey or new age-y. You want the benefits but in a way that fits your life and beliefs.

You are stepping into the unknown, new places that have never been navigated before. You deserve a coach that can show you how key practices integrate the best of you and practical ways to integrate these into your leadership and life.

 

Sometimes you have no clue.

I have your back and give you the support you need to keep your momentum moving forward.

You want more out of life. Next level stuff.

 

You have been practicing mind/body disciplines for years now, but frankly you are curious how mindfulness, yoga or even meditation have anything to do with your workplace. You have not figured out how to integrate it into your whole life, leadership and at work on your own terms. 

“I chose coaching again with Dr. Bena Long because I was looking for a better work-life balance and wanted to build capacity in myself to work more effectively and with more ease rather than stress. At the time I needed to determine if the job I was in was still a good fit and if there was a way for me to feel fulfilled in the role while also taking care of my family and not burning myself out. Because I had worked with Bena before and we shared some common social spaces, I hesitated that this familiarity would hinder honest feedback and progress. This turns out was never a problem. 

Bena was super flexible and able to pivot on a dime with whatever came up in a session. Our sessions were often challenging but filled with fun and play. Dr. Bena is very intuitive, making it possible for me to step out of the driver's seat, and trust she knows how to bring us further along the path. This coaching moved me from successfully problem-solving a current situation to visioning the next steps and what could be. 

Wherever you are in your career, there is always room for growth. Dr. Bena is able to hone in on that growing edge and help guide you around the obstacles to be more inspired, powerful, and peaceful in your life, not just your career.”

Mira Berzofsky

Executive Director


Learn time tested skills used by leaders of the Fortune 100
Bring out your best and do good things at work.

  • Turn on a dime into a calm and clear-headed person. 

  • Chaos and conflict – no problem - got an instant neutralizer for that!

  • Tame the thoughts out the mouth without a filter

  • Speaking up when you prefer avoiding conflict 

  • Listening without the anticipation of your answer.

  • Calm and quiet the negative self talk.

  • Acknowledging your dark side - your shadow shows up on the sunniest of days.

  • Chill

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You deserve to be heard, validated and connected.

Real humans at work need real human solutions. The kind you appreciate at work and go easily overlooked. Things such as:

truthfulness, caring, collaboration, open-mindedness, generosity, leadership

Just to name a few. You are not educated in and not paid sums of money for excelling at these attributes, they are just acquired mostly haphazardly.

The difference between being physically here with your mind elsewhere vs. present and engaging in life is about developing the real human skills that bring out the best in humanity and your potential realized.

You are ready to pay it forward by bringing all of you to work  - the calm you, the clear thinking, openminded, problem solving, listening, bring the best out of others original you. It’s in there even when the shadow of darkness seems to be all you can see - it is only because like the sun, you are shining brightly.  

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